How to Throw an Espresso Martini Bachelorette That’s Strong, Sweet, and Slightly Unhinged
Four young women dressed in neutral tones—browns, tans, and a pop of dusty pink—sit together at a cozy bar table in the evening, laughing and enjoying each other’s company. One holds an espresso martini while another displays a small card, suggesting they're playing a party game or sharing a fun moment. The warm lighting and city backdrop add to the chic, celebratory vibe.
She’s bold. She’s caffeinated. She’s emotionally unwell but in a really hot way. If your bride is the kind of girl who says “espresso martinis are a personality trait,” then this is her dream bachelorette theme.
This isn't just a color palette — it's a lifestyle. Think: chic bar carts, satin dresses, and everyone spiraling in sync by 11 p.m. Let’s build a weekend that’s strong, sweet, and a little unhinged — just like her drink order.
Color Palette & Aesthetic
Colors: Chocolate brown, espresso, ivory, dusty rose, black, soft gold
Textures: Satin, sheer mesh, metallic shimmer
Mood: Moody lounge meets hotel mini bar — sultry lighting, chill playlists, and dark glossy nails
Vibe Check: If your photos don’t look like a scene from Euphoria meets Mad Men, try again
Decor + Printable Essentials
Drink Menus: Signature cocktail = espresso martini (obviously), but throw in a “decaf” option like a dirty chai or vanilla vodka soda
Banners:
Sip Happens
Buzzed, Not Bitter
Shaken, Not Stable
Gift Bag Ideas:
Mini espresso shots or cold brew cans
Under-eye patches
Satin scrunchies
Chocolate-covered espresso beans (aka legal uppers)
Games & Activities
Bachelorette Bingo: Custom with phrases like “someone says they don’t like vodka,” “double shot,” “calls fiancé to ‘just check in’”
Which Broad is the Bride? — Our original game where the bride’s chaos is the main event
Red Flag / Green Flag / Smash Anyway: Coffee and dating-based edition
FMK: Espresso Edition — featuring beans, bartenders, and boys who ghost
Itinerary Ideas
Name the weekend:
Espress-Yo’self: [Bride]’s Bachelorette
Tinis & Terrors
Brunette Energy Only
Wake, Rave, Repeat
Sample Itinerary:
Friday Night: Espresso martini bar crawl — pick 2–3 cocktail lounges and rank each one
Saturday Morning: Hangover yoga or IV hydration (with espresso on deck)
Saturday Afternoon: DIY martini-making class or a group coffee tasting
Saturday Night: Dress code: Dark, short, and slightly unstable
What to Wear
Think model-off-duty in Milan meets brunch-with-regret
Satin minis, chocolate brown fits, strappy heels, espresso-colored lips
Optional: one friend wears all white and is banned from caffeine, just for drama
Final Thought:
A great bachelorette weekend doesn’t have to be complicated — just slightly over-caffeinated. Whether you’re dancing on tables or curled up with under-eye masks and martinis, the espresso theme hits every time: glam, moody, and a little out of pocket.
Now get buzzed. But make it bridal.